Saturday, October 31, 2015

Attached to stuffed animals

It is said children around 18 months start to show affections towards plush animals/dolls/whatever...well, he has loved his loveys and Charlie for a really long time but now he starts to like other soft things and show affection towards them. At some level, it is super-cute :) Maybe one day he'll start to show a lot of affection towards his mother, so far he kisses me on a command and there is still like 80% chance he says "no" :-) He would never say no to kissing Charlie. I'm trying not to take it personally :)


The drawing development


In this post I talked that his drawing skills are developing, now he enjoys drawing circles more than anything. His favourite colours are blue and white, but mostly the blue.

Teething


He has been teething for several days and he wanted to spend his days in bed reading or playing. Sounds almost idyllic, right? A toddler not running around, a pregnant lady has time to lie down and have a rest...BUT! I hate it. He is a constant talker (well, what toddler isn't?), but he has only a few syllables and mostly he says "m" "mmmm" "m-m-m" - instead of signing/saying what he wants or naming the animals in the book...so it required my full attention. Yesterday I had a horrible headache at the end of the day, but when he fell asleep, it miraculously disappeared :) Oh, and we had to read the same books over and over and over...pure fun...for him.
Another fun thing about the days in bed: he nurses as often as a baby and eats solids only a bit...I was a bit thinking about stopping the breastfeeding before but as he has so many more teeth to grow, it wouldn't be probably very smart move.
Yesterday I gave him the Lego Duplo set, he loves the car, no surprise there. It kept him busy for at least half an hour and he was quite quiet :) The bright side, he forgot about the books, so no more reading the same stuff again and again.
Giving him the Duplo made me realize that I really cannot keep anything away from him, which is the reason I normally buy his presents only a few days before the event. The good thing is that he doesn't care about the amount of presents yet and as I read somewhere, at this age it is more important to give him toys all year round depending on his development rather than events...of course, Lego is an ever-green toy but with some other things it might be true.

Monday, October 26, 2015

What we no longer do


Generally I don't promote activities which might end up in me cleaning after. Considering how much time everything takes us, I consider it as a smart move. He will eventually learn it...and I seriously do admire all mothers of toddlers who don't care and just let the kids experiment and then they clean after without sighing or any hesitations. 

Never stop growing

Even though I don't pay that much intentional attention to developing our son any more, there has been some progresses going on lately, it is happening naturally, my role is to be mostly a facilitator.

He starts to lining up anything: coins, drawing blocks, pictures from memory game, Lego blocks...but he destroys the line before I manage to take a picture.
The only picture I managed to take
He is an obsessive tower builder, he builds them out of building blocks, Lego, stamps, drawing blocks...


He also an obsessive railroad constructor.

He is also a big fan of books, the best ones are those without any text, just sceneries where he can find stuff. Lately he has noticed that there are same things on different pages (in story books by Rotraut S. Berner) - e.g. he is able to follow the penguin through the book. He also enjoys books with animals, he loves me naming them. 


Pairing. Don't have any picture, but he seems to enjoy finding the same pictures in the memory game box or in his books where he is supposed to find something in the scenery. I decided not to become and obsessive laminate machine user because now it seems like he has reached the age when printing and laminating would make sense. 

Drawing - from angry scribbling to more abstract drawing...his hand/arm is becoming more relaxed. Again no picture. 

Oh, and he is no longer afraid to crawl under a table! He is super slow and careful, but he can do it! So proud of him, seems like one of the biggest achievements of his life :)

Friday, October 23, 2015

Last Indian summer days



The last few weeks were unusually sunny. I mostly remember autumns in Estonia being cold and rainy. What a nice change, right? 

Just a cute picture from our morning walk.

Going grilling for the first time.

No interest in the fire, his motorbike and the water nearby were far more interesting


Autumn in our neighbourhood

We took a lot of motorbike trips
We tried to do most out of the weather...today, there were puddles outside. HE WAS SO HAPPY! I mean seriously happy, I felt moved watching him go...and thought every parent should get a rubber clothes for their tot and let them enjoy the water. No pictures, though, I am not very good at bringing my camera or phone with. I guess he likes the rainy weather far more than the sun.


Somebody doesn't like his hands getting dirty :)